Often we feel that we are treated unfairly or something hap-
pens that we do not accept as fair. What is fair and what is
not?
Life is neither fair nor unfair. It’s beyond the concept of
“rightness.” It does not judge or prefer anything or anyone—
it just simply is. How can we still feel that we are [...]

We often desire acceptance from others. We are insecure
about ourself and need confirmation from other people. We
want to know what others might think about us. To be more
specific, we are looking for acceptance from others by ponder-
ing what others may think about us. In most of the cases, the
truth is that others are not thinking [...]

We are often just struggling. Life is something we have to
struggle through. We react, and most of the things are just
issues that we have to handle. The attitude toward life is that
we have to. Most of the things we are required to do like we
would not have a choice. But what would you do if [...]

There is plenty of confusion and chaos around us. Many
things seem not to make much sense, and drastic changes
happen. Leaving out natural disasters and environmental
incidents, humans create much of this confusion.
How does a confused person behave? He or she is insecure
and lost in his or her actions. This is literally the case when [...]

Often we want something—we want to learn new skills, get
rid of bad habits, or change something in our behavior. We
are continuously in a state of wanting or becoming. Are we
ever getting anywhere?
Wanting (or becoming) states loud and clear that we do
not have something. If we had the “something,” we would no
longer want it. [...]

We love to fixate. We are afraid of new, unknown things.
Being novel is maybe the most difficult thing to do. A physi-
cal appearance is easy to observe and, therefore, the most vis-
ible way to see the patterns and changes, if there are any.
Some people never change their hairstyle during their entire
lifetime (and they do not [...]

We like certainty. We would love to live in a world where
things are predictable. Or do we?
Our behavior seems to support the idea of predictable life.
We do not like to change, and we like surprises even less so.
We are comfortable with our ordinary lives and our daily rou-
tines and events. We feel that we [...]